Before you set off to rub your favorite gravestone…there are a few things you must understand about old graveyards and cemeteries. First they are places to commemorate the dead and you should be respectful of this. Old graveyards are also outdoor Museums and contain vast amounts of historic, artistic, and architectural information.

Rubbing does Not harm gravestones…if done properly and will actually help remove dirt, lichens, and acid rain residue. Rubbing gravestones can be an educational family activity and encourages people to conserve and preserve old graveyards. However, not all graveyards allow stones to be rubbed. Check local rules and regulations to make sure it is permitted.

Check with the cemetery superintendent…or with the local Historical Society, If you are still unsure whether it is possible to rub a gravestone or at the Town Hall to receive a permit.

When selecting a gravestone to rub… avoid rough stones, eroded or damaged stones, or densely lichened stones. Rubbing a stone that is deeply engraved or has a high relief will tear the rubbing paper. If the stone is flaking or has been damaged, avoid it. It’s hard to get a good rubbing from a damaged stone. Use only paper recommended for gravestone rubbing, such as our “Aqaba” brand rubbing paper which is malleable and not does rip or tear easily.